so you go to a place, whether it's mecca or santiago or tibet or rome, jerusalem, wherever it is -- you're seeking something, and you're going to have to do it on your own. nobody can carry your pack. nobody can walk in your shoes. you must do it alone, but you cannot do it without community. >> the difficulty of the journey, he says, touches the soul. >> you begin the journey within. now the real pilgrimage begins, because now you have to open up the dungeons and jail cells of your heart and release all of the things that have been keeping you from being yourself, keeping you from, you know, discovering who you really are. so you let go of your resentments and your anger and your jealousies and your hatreds and all the dark parts, and eventually you'll become free, you'll become yourself, and you'll become part of your extended family, which is community. >> and sometimes that family and those people you pick up along the camino are not necessarily people you would choose. they choose you in many ways, and yet those are the people that we sometimes learn the greatest lessons from. >> este