tim clemens is co-producer of "truth unlocked." >> this came about with our kids interacting with otheruslim kids within their school. and i felt very ill-equipped and ignorant with another culture that moved in. >> reporter: this talk show host appears on the "truth unlocked" d.v.d., and she is a former muslim and says westerners should understand them before they start a relationship. >> a man and a wife are welcoming a couple into their home, and the man of the house would extend the hand to shake the hand of the wife. instantly she is offended because she is veiled and she is not supposed to be shaking a man's hand. right there he broke, you know, a rule. so it takes a while for us to correct these things. >> reporter: terror attacks like th the boston marathon bombings, may cause people to shy away from pursuing a relationship with muslims. she says christians should not be afraid. >> when a christian person comes and presents to me the god that he loves and worships, that is an eye-opener, and a heart opener to many of us. we see when muslims are offered the freedom to se christ,