. >> it was at jimmie o's where carrie met tim mcvay. from the moment they laid eyes on each other, they were smitten. >> they were flirting with each other's. you could tell their interest in each other, it was cute. >> tim started theology at augustan college. he planned on combing a minister, but felt he was too young and inexperienced to live up to the responsibility. so he took a dramatic u-turn, and found a very different calling in bars and clubs, as the karaoke king of the quad cities. >> he was very good at running karaoke. he was funny. he entertained the customers. he got up there and dance with them. he would sing songs. you know, he was a good guy. >> tim, a divorced father of two, with ten years older than carrie. but that did not seem to matter. they were having fun, and carrie could imagine a future together. >> she saw everyone around her getting married, and having children, myself included. and, i know she wanted that. >> but tim was not interested in having more children, and that was a deal breaker for carrie. so they