apolo ohno: that's timothy leduc mom becky leduc, speaking from her home in cedar rapids, iowa, with her husband mike, about timothy coming out as gay. timothy leduc: it was very difficult with my family at first. but i was in a very christian, conservative environment, going to church so many times a week. i believed the lies that i was told-- that i was an abomination. apolo ohno: and timothy's parents believed those lies too. mike leduc: our first reaction, i remember, was-- i mean, inside, it was a little bit of a shock, and a little bit of-- of-- you know, very troubling at the time because of our background. apolo ohno: the second time timothy came out, timothy was 28 years old. and this time, it was about something else. and it wasn't in the darkness of the moon. this time, there was a little less fear, a little more light, and a lot more pride. timothy leduc: very broadly speaking, gender is one's internal sense of self as male or female, both or neither. it's different from biological sex, which is a person's physical traits. through a lot of introspection, through seeking au