i just saw at tnchunchfnchtnchsnch. meryl streep, za caria talked about being an immigrant. i hope these people have achieved a certain level of success. i think they are incredibly generous people in offering to talk about what they faced along the bay. tavis: as these es says came through, you were reading them, did you detective a consistency through all of this advice? >> well, i don't think we divided it up. i think there is definitely some links to these essays. i think a lot of people did talk quite frankly about failure and how they had to get up and michelle kwan talked about how she had to learn how to fall, for example, as she was training to be an olympic skater and others talked about the importance of resilience. i talk a lot about how i had to be resilient after the death of my husband when he was 42 and we had two little girls, 2 and 6 when jay died. and so resilience, i think is a theme. hard work and tenacity is a theme. it is not being afraid of failure. you know, sort of carrying your courage around in your pocket like your cell phone. i think so my new p