please welcome the great tom colicchio!y: one of the most respected chefs in america. thanks for being on the show. great to meet you. >> likewise. >> ronny: great person as well. your book, cookbook and memoir. you've managed to trick us into reading about your story in between -- you kind of hide it in between these recipes here. very -- it is well written. i encourage everyone to go read it. for a chef, the stereotype is, everyone is very angry but you write this with so much love. >> [laughs] >> ronny: what is the real you? is it this? >> it's this, yeah. >> ronny: i don't know enough about cooking at all but with comedy, there is a certain amount of toxicity that you need to endure to get good at this, you know? so do you feel the same way with cooking? i guess, what would you say to all these woke sissies who are complaining about being mistreated in the kitchen? like, really? are you like, tough enough or are you like -- >> not anymore. we don't do that anymore. we can't do that. things have changed. when i was comin