tomika brings me to one of them, daitoro, to meet some friends.beef intestine and fermented chicken. this place is known for its motsunabe, intestine stew with miso. so we order some of that as well. this is naga, invited along to help translate. naga owns a company, but naga also teaches pole dancing for men. then there's this man, one of the best known and most respected practitioners, a master of the art of ropes of beautiful knots, of for what lack of a better word, we call bondage. so how big is the sadomasochistic community? how many people are active participants? >> translator: 100,000 people. >> a lot? >> a lot. >> this is shubare, translation, to bind. it makes things more confusing, a comfortable reaction for what sure as hell looks pretty disturbing. tomika, who spends most of her time ripping, burning, and generally abusing men, enthusiastically reverses roles in her longtime relationship with hajami. it looks like a very delicate procedure. does it hurt? or does it feel good? >> translator: this pain change to the ecstacy. to the exc