umm, we're going to find you one way or another. >> detective tony kemp also vowed to find her. onvinced heather did not run off with her old boyfriends, ed, so he asked what else would cause heather to leave her husband and children. that's when kemp began to flush out what really happened when heather moved out on chris. >> it was very scary and only continued to deteriorate. >> friends and family told him how at first chris tried to woo her with flowers and chocolates, buho . . . ge n turned ugly. >> he would tech her and call her, this time they were violent. you're not going to take my kids from me, i'm not going to let you leave. you won't get away with this. i will come after you. >> then friends said chris started acting more desperate and heather started getting really scared. >> he would show up at her work. he would show up at the gym. he started showing up at the house in the middle of the night and i just remember thinking like, this is insane. you are literally stalking her. >> i got a lot of information on chris on what these people thought of him and it was not fo