as champions of those standards, they are held to a higher standard, said tony perkins, president of the family research council, which promotes marriage and family as the foundation of civilization. if you are going to hold to these issues, you have to live by them. governor mark sanford admitted his affair yesterday. it was an 18-minute press conference. at >> the bottom line is this. i have been a faithful to my wife. i began their relationship with someone who started out as a dear, dear friend, from argentina. it began very innocently, as i suspect many of these things do come in just a casual e-mail back and forth, advice on one's life there and one's life here. but here, recently over this last year, it developed into something much more than that. and as a consequence, i hurt her, i hurt your wall, i hurt my wife, i hurt my boys, i hurt friends like tom davis. i heard a lot of different folks. host: some of the headlines from the new york tabloids. "run away governor." "daily news" says "buenos airhead." the question that we are asking, the private lives of public officials.