we're still so raw and in so much pain about treyvon martin, that when we heard the hoodie reference,there are no scabs on our wounds. >> the hoodie thing and i was one of the first journalists to bring the treyvon martin to a national stage, one of. everyone feels terribly for them. but every time someone mentions a conversation like a hoodie, is it always treyvon? >> when you say a black boy in a hoodie, this was so painful and so real, so very much like it, that is the icon ography. it is around pain and racism. i think we need to expand our narratives outside of the stereo types that we have been given beyond the hoodie. it hurts too much right now. >> point taken. too soon. so when originally he said i'm a little bit worried about the slippery slope of taking someone's team away. then he got new information and changed his mind. then when you talk about the iconography, he didn't realize it in the initial comments and then realized it and apologized. that's a mature adult. >> that's how we evolve. i think you have to learn and grow and be willing to recover. there's a madness in