u. n. h sierra registered 10000 new arrivals and more have found shelter in villages near the border. my food has been here for more than a decade, but the violent and molly is ever present. she says his nephew was killed there this year. how do you miss icon? there are massacres, killings of anyone, anywhere or in any way possible. this year lives in the cities in the bush on the road. in the villages, the people, women. this really makes us feel very uneasy. mother is. i need to have my food still hopes that he'll be able to return tomorrow the one day. but until the violence there's thoughts, he'll stay here and fight fires with the other volunteers, rape and sexual abuse of man is often not reported. and that makes it difficult to get a true picture of how wide spread it is, but it is believed to be a major problem in nigeria when the organization working with men, say, statistics tend to reflect one side of the story. i'll be talking to an expert on that officer. this report from dw correspondent flash will bunny on the digital safe space. that's helping men in nigeria find heali