and i will always have this from doing u.s.o. tours and seeing soldiers with their arms around each other crying an singing, i don't do it for the money. i've got bills that i can't pay. and at the end of the show the general came up and he gave this beautiful frame with an american flag that had flown over the base. and he gave it tovery member of our troop. and when he gave it to me, he said, al keep telling those don't ask/don't tell jokes. i think you may have some fans up there, and he pointed at those women. and later, those women came up to me and said we're gay. and they're -- i mean, i think everybody knew it. and this is 2006. this is when it was really hard for the military to recruit people. and so they gave waivers out at that time. and they gave waivers for -- moral waivers, and they gave waivers for people who didn't do as well in school or didn't graduate school. and i swear, if you ask every man and woman on that base, who would you rather have standing to your right, standing to your left, that gay man or that g