and she should marry me. >> do you still love uma thurman? me with your microphone. >> reporter: in 2008, jordan was found guilty of stalking the actress. during his trial, thurman was forced to read aloud disturbing letters. he used words like mouth, soft, kissing and seduced. and she recalled a photo he sent of a headless bride. these exclusive photos provided to "gma" by jordan's parents, show a much different side of their son. when he was the president of his high school senior class and the captain of his swim team. but as a college student, they say he became interested in the teachings of dr. robert thurman, uma's father. and that's when his obsession began. >> i hate you, matt saunders. >> reporter: in 2005, he showed up on the set of her movie, "my super ex-girlfriend," with a postcard that read, my hand should be on your body at all times. he was banned from having contact with her for five years, along with three years probation and psych ya trick treatment. >> we're sending a message to the perpetrator every time they receive a l