and at's what i want to tell people when they read "ugly as sin" i want them to undstand that characteric surgery and so you say i'm sort of a pocrite? >> i had plastic surgery so that i could hopefully sell more books when i first book came out. within the same year, i had two life threatening surgeries on a completely different part of my body, completely unrelated and what i rlized is that i took my healthor granted. i could have died on the table so that i got a better jaw line and why? why? the idea of being a person who passes away and has to look at my family and explain to them i did it for my jaw line was just overwhelming for me. i'm not willing t do that anymore. >> thank you so much for the book, it's really provocative, thank you. >> so get "ugly as sin". >>> up next, when is it okay for your child to -- all those tough questis that every parent faces right after this. it was a real shock. i remember being at the hospital thinking, "i should have done more to take care ofyself." you should've. that's why i'm exercising more now. eating healthier. and i also trust my heart t