>> unfore natalie not. >> any hesitation when you decided to put your family on tv that this would comet? >> i think whenever we started the tv show the reality show was that five years or something after all of this. we had dealt with it. as a family we had moved on. >> there was never a fear we are targets now we are on tv we are outspoken? >> all of the people in our lives the close friends and the people the officials that helped us walk along side of our family during this time and walk along the hardest days they knew about this. people walked through this with us. we didn't feel like there was a need to share private information about the people who weren't a part of the problem or the sool luges. after all of the months they said your parents have done an amazing job. your home is a safe place for children. >> some of the family critics would say you not only went on tv but you add voe indicated strong christian values now critics are saying the family shouldn't have been out there doing that since they knew what had happened. is that fair? >> well i think that some people i hav