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. >> powerful and unforgive, huge black torrents like this one chewed up houses and spat out debris. more than 360 people were killed by tornadoes in alabama and mississippi last april. but twisters season is here again. they have plone apart communities as fast as the people can draw breath. >> let's for a moment concentrate on indiana. what happened to one when one tornado struck. >> i was driving on highway 65 just past louisville. i could see the storms around. he was watching the weather to tell me how to go and how to miss the worst of it. so he had me pull off to the side for a few minutes underneath an overpass then he had me keep going because ahead of me was a tornado. but right behind me there was some more bad weather. so i was kind of stuck in the middle so he was having me continue on. and i ended up being just a few minutes south of where the worst hit in henryville, indiana. and to kind of see in a distance, i didn't see the actual tornado but saw the cell sweeping across the interstate and ended up getting some hail on me as well and then driving through the area whe

the reality is unforgiveness is not holding him on the hook. it's holding you on the hook.an be forgiven because you don't forgive yourself. there was a line in the lord's prayer that really started it all for me. forgive of our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. i always had trouble saying that, because i thought i don't know if i want god forgiving me the way i treat other people. maybe i need to work on forgiving other people. >> isn't it fascinating when you decide i'm going to love that neighbor, that person, all of a sudden it almost molecularly you change because love can't live where hate does. >> that's absolutely right. you have to be a strong person to do it. forgiveness is not for weak people. it is a high idea where you see the bigger ideal, the longer ideal of where you want to go ultimately.giveness says i beli the future and i have a higher principle. >> congratulations on "time" magazine picking you as the best preacher. >> then you were wonderful at whitney's going-home service. god bless her family. >> thank you. >> you come and see u