it's unprofessional.n you are dealing with somebody who has a loss like this, just think of the word professional. that's what we try to do. this sort of body language here, she's trying to comfort here, do you think she's buying it? not with that body language. she's not really buying it. some people won't. some people will never be the same. like that thing with katrina, some people are really good but you can tell just under the surface that they are a wreck. give them space, try to be professional, try to comfort them if you can, but some people won't let you. and don't take it personal. that's the main thing, just don't take it personal. sometimes people just can't be helped. they are not mad at you, they don't hate you, you are trying to help them. they probably understand that, but they have suffered a terrific loss and some people you can't help. but try. you got to try anyway. that's kind of why we're here, we want to try. some other feels, disorientation, physical or emotional numbness, loss of

five trainers have been convicted of sexual assault or unprofessional relationships. the recommendations were made today at the pentagon. >>> one of the country's most powerful politicians is staying put. nancy pelosi says she'll continue her role as house minority leader. >> it isn't about the gavel although we like to have it. it's about the unity we share, it's about the important work we can do and it's about thinking a little longer term, a little longer term of the path our country is on and where we would go. >> the 72-year-old pelosi made the big announcement this morning in washington. you can see she was flanked by democratic women in the house. the house democrats are united in leading the country longterm. >>> president obama defending his ambassador on the comments she made about benghazi. >> the first news conference since being re-elected, president obama touched on the fiscal cliff and global warming and petraeus scandal. john mccain and lindsay graham accused rice of misleading the american people about the u.s. consulate attack in libya that killed f

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senior military official, were in no way explicit or suggestive, but they might be considered unprofessional or flirtatious, using words like sweetheart and dear. allen has denied any wrongdoing. this morning his boss leon panetta said don't leap to conclusions yet. we put off his confirmation hearing just to be prudent, but don't jump to conclusions until all the facts are determined. meantime, let's talk about general david petraeus, who stepped down as cia director. it turns out his former mistress, paula broadwell, as you mentioned, may be here in the d.c. area with her brother. petraeus may still have to come to capitol hill to testify on benghazi. turns out he'd done a recent investigation. while his successor is scheduled to testify in those hearings starting today, several lawmakers are saying they want to hear from petraeus. aaron? >> tracie potts on capitol hill, thank you. >>> congressional leaders are vowing to work together to avoid the so-called fiscal cliff. lawmakers return to washington yesterday. reaching a budget deal is their top priority. they must come to an agreement b

. >> i don't want to sound unprofessional but it's so bad. >> tell me. >> so bad. >> this is what i wants on the stage. you don't know the hijinks happening. >> how often do you lose it and just start cracking up on stage? >> at least once a night but sometimes several times a night. >> with that i knew i found my new home, well, minus one tiny, little detail, you know, the whole singing and dancing think. ♪ you say either and i say either ♪ ♪ you say neither and i say either ♪ ♪ either, neither let's call the whole thing off ♪ >> one, two, one, two, three. broadway. >> you're already on broadway. you've got it, girl. >> it was off to rehearsals. >> you sit down. all the ladies say hi, jimmy. >> hi, girls. >> we were just in the neighborhood. >> gee, i probably shouldn't. did you bring your swimsuit? >> who needs a swimsuit? >> i like where this is going. right, one, two, left, and then double time. left and right. >> when is our five-minute break? >> in 55 minutes. >> okay. you were magnificent in the park. >> that's it. stop talking and i'm going to go. that's perfect. i'm magnificent.

causing a multi-car crash is dangerous and unprofessional.nd it is a lack of civility here. we're supposed to have sportsmanship especially in a sport like car racing where it can be deadly to lose sportsmanship. i think this is terrible. the people involved should be ashamed of themselves. do i hope they investigate it and -- >> oh, i'm sure they are. >> hand out real punishments to these guys. >> gordon says they've got do what they've got do just like i had to do what i had to do. >> that's just a terrible way to approaching the accident. i think that's actually sickening for him to say that. he should apologize and say, the adrenalin got the best of me and say -- >> take the higher road. >> say i'm willing to take my punishment. >> gentlemen, thank you very much. appreciate it. >>> coming up in the next hour, sex and the c suite. should fooling around cost ceos their jobs? we talked a little bit about it this hour. they're going to talk more about it next hour. back in a moment. americans believe they should be in charge of their own futu

inappropriate relationship that they have seen thus far but that some of the communications may have been unprofessional or even player tashous. allen denied any wrongdoing as of this morning, his boss, defense secretary panetta, says don't lead to conclusions here that we postponed his confirmation hearing for thursday. it was a prudent thing to do, panetta says, until all of the facts on this come out. meantime, here in washington, we are watching a home here where paula broadwell is believed to be. she was just seen a short time ago coming in and out very quickly from her brother's home here in the d.c. area. no longer at her home in north carolina. finally, general petraeus, who had the affair and stepped down as cia director, lawmakers want to hear from him as well. not so much about this controversy per se but specifically about his investigation into the death in benghazi. those hearings start today. laura? >> all right. so much going on. thank you very much. >>> also, in less than would hours, house minority leader nancy pelosi is expected to announce whether or not she will step down from her l

between the two were more than just calling one another sweetheart, they were flirtatious and unprofessional. both of them wrote letters vouching for her sister in a child custody case and she made this phone call claiming she had some sort of diplomatic status which she does not. >> i am an honorary consul-general so i have unveilability so i should -- they should not be going across my property. but that's against the law to cross my mrort. um, it's involable. >> "the washington post" says there is a new focus on sensitive information in her possession. multiple u.s. officials have insisted to nbc news there was no security breach. let me bring in major garrett, white house reporter and tim carney for "the washington examiner." good morning to both of you. tim, let me start with you. are you surprised about the decision apparently by general petraeus to testify before the senate intelligence committee? >> i know that on capitol hill and probably in the media there was a shock that he was going to back out of it. that just his quitting his job shouldn't have been enough to get him out of te

i think it is unprofessional. it is small minded.s, the president, he took responsibility in that debate with mitt romney. he took responsibility for benghazi. why don't they wait for the investigation to make the conclusions known before they start attacking certain individuals. >> i think suif the president ss that she's just sharing the information the intelligence community gave, i take him at his word on that and he was -- this was personal to him. obviously this is a long relationship. we saw president today who may or may not have a mandate, but he certainly understands he has a tremendous amount of political power against a fragmented republican opposition and he's using it right there to defend his administration. but i did hear something that i hadn't quite heard that way before today and that was the president said that when he found out that american lives were in danger in benghazi, he, quote, i gave orders to do everything we can to protect them. when did he give them? to whom? were they followed? why was no one really

the rush to judgment against the ambassador is particularly unprofessional and reckless, considering that the intelligence. we will not allow a brilliant public service record to be moderate, -- to be muggeed to cut off her consideration of becoming secretary of state. >> we have been honored to hear from a senior member of our caucus, the distinguished eleanor holmes norton. i am the co-chair of the democratic women's study group. i would be remiss not to note some of the distinguished people who are here. the presence san diego, california. -- represents san diego, california. of course barbara lee who has become renowned in her outspokenness about the wars of the death afghanistan and iraq. really did lead the charge towards ending the war in iraq. i think we have heard a great deal from eleanor holmes norton so i will give you the short version of all the things she said. for these men to attack the permanent representative to the united nations, susan rice. we understand all of us have been disappointed in one way or another about the results of the election. but to batter this

the rush to judgment against the ambassador is particularly unprofessional and reckless considering that the intelligence irrefutably documents her public remarks. we will not allow a brilliant public servant's record to be mugged to cut off her consideration to become secretary of state. i very much appreciate being able to speak for susan rice. >> we have been honored to hear from a senior member of our caucus, the distinguished eleanor holmes norton. i am the co-chair of the women's study group, and while all of the women who are assembled here are not going to speak, i would be remiss not to note some of the distinguished people who are here. we had susan davis, who is a very high ranking official on the armed services committee representing san diego, california. is that right? good. [laughter] we have barbara lee, who has become renowned in her outspokenness about the wars in afghanistan and iraq and really did lead the charge toward ending the war in iraq. we also have done a christian islands. the virgin bal we have heard a great deal from delegate eleanor holmes norton, so i wil