. >> if i was white, i wouldn't be randomly searched for quote, unquote security purposes. kiara said i will shoot 17-year-old teenagers and getting away with t a lot of people refused to play along. ryan didn't like the trend particularly in the month that we are in. he says matter-of-factly, if i was white, i wouldn't be black adding it's an ignorant trend. >> black history trend was not made to bash other races but to educate so we can converge. i asked you what you thought about this trend. viewer gabrie he will says i think we are bringing up a needed conversation about race and ross disagrees saying i people. it's also bullying. >> let us know what you think about this hash tag. tweet to us. >> that i recognize her mel a. why you may not want to frown upon failure and instead more fully em embrace it. later on, why the comic indicators that we base major financial decisions upon could be off the mark. >>> nobody likes to fail, but everyone does. and my next guest argues that failure can be the best thing that happens to us if we learn to use it wisely, whether it's di