i know i often do say things which will be better left unsaid, but you must agree with me dear, she'llbetter off in the country somewhere. she's been with us for 30 years. but she can't work anymore, can she? well, either i don't understand you or you don't want to understand me. she can't work. she just sleeps or sits about. well, let her sit about. what do you mean let her sit about, she's a servant. well, i don't understand you olya. i have a nurse for the children and a wet nurse. we share a cook and a maid, whatever do we want this old woman for? what for? i have aged 10 years tonight. we must sort this out olya. you're working at school, i'm working at home. you're teaching. i'm running the house and when i say anything about the servants i know what i'm talking about and that old thief, that old witch must get out of this house tomorrow. how dare you vex me so, how dare you. really, if you don't move downstairs we shall always be quarreling. this is quite dreadful. where's masha? well, it's time we went home. they say the fire's getting less spirit. you know, only one block got

and of peace with god do you understand that the whispering of the ear means that nothing was left unsaid you have a tattoo in memory of your brother or you talk about getting the tattoo no my sisters do a perfect that's fine and how do you connect with the number three are you one of three children are there three sisters. i'm sure ok who can i put the month of march. there tell me i'm with you. and you not going to say anything. my uncle died in a private plane crash ok and i'm wearing a necklace that he gave to me and the bureau and the bed. and when the plane crash wires themselves from the top of the plane actually restaurants and runs and then he drowned so you wonder but he also tell you have to understand this is the remarkable thing about spirit they will band together i refer to it as piggybacking where i can speak channel one soul but it might be healing messages for so many other people so no because when i was sitting there i was looking right at you and you knew that but your uncle tells me you feel him you sense and are very sensitive to spirit is that correct so this is fo

i would note in addition to what is unsaid, do you make a dirt in the media and run the clr and infrastructure will be major challenges in providing humanitarian relief in the short run, but also the longer run. >> is there any policy the united states is currently supporting the you believe is counterproductive to the helping humanitarian needs? >> saverio then the agency that were confident. that can be defined. they have people on the ground. there's a small political mission on the ground. there's an embassy that has better information to assess where it is we can make a difference. >> let me ask one question about gender violence. do any of you have direct information to the status of gender violence activities in the vulnerability of children? >> well, i don't have any absolute statistics. from the time our symbols and go out, we have many stories especially women and gender violence. there were even several homes where they would be a mama taking care of 10 15 women who had been briefed. women are afraid to move out and they never go alone. probably offer services then there is treatmen