my sister always gives my kids extravagant gifts sometimes unstaging santa.an be as generous as she wants to be. how can i tell her to stop spiling my kids? >> she has talked to her once and this hasn't worked. some people think they have talked to someone. you need to be fairly direct. the kids are going to love whatever you give, no matter what. we would really like to be santa. you can't go as far as holding back the presents. let the kids appreciate them and send their thank you notes. >> i think you can make a strong point to the sister about you and your husband trying to cut down on the materialism at ch s christmas so she doesn't feel like it is an attack on her but a family project. maybe she will tone it down. it would be a lot worse if she didn't care about your kids. >> this is true, this is true. >> as an aunt, what's the big deal. i got my nephew a car. he is 2 1/2. i'm not sure what the big deal is. >> dylan is out on the plaza with another question. >> reporter: we have robert. i'm an on-time person, i love this question. >> we invited our fam