first generation, brainwashed a whole generation of women into thinking that success meant being an unwoman a non-woman. basically the more you are like a man, the more successful you would be. ridiculous. i hope you have con to the beginning of the conclusion that some other reasons, some of the ways in which you can celebrate the difference between men and women are reasons for great success and great happiness, not because we are better but because we are not the same. we are working on a book right now to be released next year by elizabeth cantor called the jane austen guide austin guide to happily ever after. and this is a really fun book. in this book elizabeth gives some politically incorrect advice about finding mr. right based on jane austen's heroin and how they pursued love. and she points out that jane austen -- were both more practical and more romantic about love, not to mention highly successful at finding chu happiness. so forgive me in advance for jumping from jane austen to my big fat greek wedding, but one of my favorite quotes from that movie captures what i think is a q