i climbed upthere, and it was like incredibly intimidating. i was just trying to look heroic. white knuckling it. >> back on land and in real life, "people" magazine's former sexiest man alive, gave up living in hollywood for a more private existence in hisative australia with his wife and their three young children. >> i just wanted to, you know, have an environment for my kids, but for us that was not just felt like work. >> speaking as a new father myself, yououave a quote that i read recently that resonated with me. and that i found profoundly reassuring. you said the first sign of a good father is worrying about bebeg a good fatherer >> i think your intentional goal is to be a good father. and you have a fear of not being that. and that's all in the right direction. you're constantly questioning