in 1987 ray and tanya reed, along with their two children, had just moved to urbandale, iowa. it was ray reed's fourth job transfer in three years. >> every time we moved it was an advancement for him, and i was ready, you know, any time thinking where do i want to go. >> tanya reid was a housewife who stayed home caring for their children, 6-year-old carolyn and 2-year-old michael. michael stopped breathing two days after moving to town. fortunately tanya was a nurse and knew exactly what to do. she performed cpr and immediately took him to the emergency room of iowa methodist medical center. >> it was a fever of viral etiology, dehydration and vomiting. that was a pretty standard diagnosis and situation. >> after he was stabilized michael was given a complete physical examination. he had a prior history of neurologic seizures, but doctors could not determine what was causing it. a few months later the reid's moved into a larger unit in the same complex. ray was working extremely long hours and tanya was lonely. >> i think in the beginning the relationship was okay. it was en

in 1987 ray and tanya reed, along with their two children, had just moved to urbandale, iowa.t was ray reed's fourth job transfer in three years. >> every time we moved it was an advancementor