the first is joshua who is watching us in long island your joshua, you're on the air. welcome. >> guest: first of all ad like to say in a pro-choice moderate and i very much agree with many of the things you are saying. but also, i think it should be pointed out that while i'm 32 years old and my age group, women out there and then and i think there's also a problem on the other end of the spectrum and i don't think enough people address that. but what you have to say to that as far as fathers rights in things? >> guest: well, i think that one of the great advantages of these revolutions in gender relations if they raise questions about women's rights, to add opennet meant to be more involved in their children's lives and i think it's been better for men and women together that both sexes are more equal. i don't think that the gap in wages is really the result of sound animus towards men. and what we do see on a national level is a persisting gender gap, where women earn less than men. it may be made as a reflection of age because the gender gap of wages has been for w