joining us is jeda, wife, mother and accomplished k.t.. >> we are tied as a andparent of five. let's get to, obviously you pre dealing with somewhat traditional personalities en we srted talkin about grandchildren. >> she is my daughter. [ laughter ] >> lou: how can it be that we can bamlyhoo and we talk about this progress, more th $8.5 million, $17,400 average on year. lacking education the children will be goingnto the same cycle. we are perpetuating such a waste in our society. >> the unfortunate part there are very few people that are willing to talk about this. this is a very sensitive subject. you ha to be able to talk about single mothers and the proble that ensue. you are not talking about not being able to give them educational opportunities. what ultimately leads to the entitlement society where people become dependent on government programs and government systems because they don't have a two parent household where they have two figures that can contribute to their financial well-being. so its conversation that needs to happen