val christiansen: she's very supportive of people, and loved to help other people. josh mankiewicz: that came in handy growing up in a mormon household... with no fewer than nine siblings. janet christiansen: she was a peacemaker. josh mankiewicz: she didn't like confrontation? janet christiansen: absolutely not. josh mankiewicz: in college, janet excelled... in the classroom and especially on the soccer field. josh mankiewicz: but from a very early age, janet had her sites set on something more. janet christiansen: her goal in life was to be married, and have children and-- and be a mom. having a, well, a perfect home. josh mankiewicz: enter janet's college sweetheart... raven abaroa. raven abaroa: with her, you know, i wanna say i knew right away. i mean, her and i started talking about a long-term relationship three weeks into bein' together. josh mankiewicz: britney romito was janet's best friend in college. britney romito: he was very handsome and i said all the time, you're the all-american couple. josh mankiewicz: it was a forgone conclusion that this young co