but jacob and velda bernstein. i called my brother and said, isn't that interesting that our great-grandfather was jacob and you named your son jacob. he was not interested. he said jacob was named for someone in my wife's family. i said, yes . it is common. that you think that's an interesting lineage? he was not engaging. i remember at a family dinner my nephew , who was a teenager at the time said, i don't understand . how is it that you are jewish , but that's not jewish and grandma is not jewish. and i'm looking at my brother thinking , how do i answer that. and that is how things remained. >> we will get another quick break and come back on 'mosaic'. please join us in just a moment . >>> good morning and welcome back to 'mosaic'. we are in the middle of a wonderful conversation about discovering that they are jewish . welcome back. there is so much to talk about. i am wondering how the two of you met ? and if you would talk about , is there a community of like folks in our jewish community? >> one of the ways