. -- verbage. a fight with ross and she needed to talk to me. >> did you -- did she ask you to call her? >> she did. i believe she did. she did not call me. she wanted to talk to me and i believe she said please call me. >> did she say why she was reaching out to you in particular? >> she never has told me why. >> did she see what she wanted? >> only at one time, one of the second phone calls, i asked her what she wanted. after the call we had, i realized there was a lapse of time because i had to do a telecommute call and i had to texture back and she was not ready to call. when we talked are remember saying, do you need domestic violence referrals? just in case that she was not telling me everything. she was focused on the custody issues. that i thought i had better just ask her again. i asked her bluntly and said, could you tell me what support need in general? could you tell me what support you need from me? why don't you call me? and she said she wanted to make it work with her husband, she ta

. >> some of that verbage using independent as part of the cocktail party innoculation saying i'm andent is almost synonymous with saying i'm objective. if i tell you i am an independent i can bash either party and it looks a little bit more credible. >> right. how many of us have family members that say to you, well, i'm an independent but -- followed by a harsh critique of one of the parties in a very biased way. people like to say they're independent because we like to think of ourselves as impartial. i mean, i -- >> i am not impartial. >> well, i am a partisan democrat but i still think of myself as impartial as weighing the evidence and the facts as i'm sure you have come to your positions thinking that you are weighing the evidence in an impartial way. we like to see ourselves that way. and also when you look at the fact that congress is rated 10% approve of congress and who are those 10%? >> who actually like congress. >> identifying with any political party is identifying with an institution that is fundamentally broken. i think that is -- >> it makes you seem above the fray.

it's a very grand vision, but the verbage tends to resonate with a lot, it resonates with me and kindig, what would that look like? what would a digital peace corps look like? so that's a piece of the kind of aspirational nature of the townation and what -- foundation can. supporting peers, individual narratives, and one thing that's really great about being here today is all these other partners, so we're not siloed, but we're working together which has endless potential. the born brave bus tour, as i was telling you a little bit about, if you see those subbullets, what is the born brave bus? it's part tailgate party, part youth fair and part mobile research lab. so we'll be doing -- so partners in the room, it'd be great to talk to you about if you had access to hundreds of youth in 30 different cities over the span of three months, what are some of the research questions you'd like to ask? now, mind you, let me clarify. this is not for, for little monsters. the pop-up youth fair, this celebration is not for only youth going to the concert or adults. it is for -- think of it as a ca