. >> reporter: you posted a picture of yourself with a bra showing, very e verevealing, at age of, whateverwas, 12, 13. >> we are getting messages from everywhere that say, if you dress this way, you will going to be, either treated well or you are going to feel powerful. >> so, my message to my daughter is, sexuality is a beautiful thing. you should embrace it. but it's yours. you don't want to abuse it. don't take it for granted. you need to find a balance. >> reporter: when i saw some of the outfits that winnifred was wearing, i thought, i would never let my daughter walk out of the house wearing that. >> we don't necessarily want her to dress certain ways, but at the same time, we're raising our child to be an independent thinker. >> reporter: how much is too much independence whenever click is a judgment call with potentially perment repercussions. >> i can put a very sexualized photo on facebook and make it so my parents don't know, but every guy at my school does. so, that does become a self-fulfilling prophesy, because when you make yourself look a certain way, people are going to e