and if we'd each lift donato heavy arch and can easily pop over to visit her neighbor or hillary vernon smith, an artist. oh, men is looking for both women. it's reassuring to know that someone is always around in case they need any help to change. and i think as i age i, if i'm going to help out other people, i think it slightly easier to help women than it is to help my male friends. and women are in much more need of housing as they get older than men. certainly in my generation, it was the women who usually lived longer than the men, so were left on their own. men are certainly welcome, but only as visitors we have lots of mile visitors. we have brothers, we have grandchildren, you know, we have gotten into a mile where you, so we have a lot of men around. but they cannot live here. living only with women is appealing so many. surely. guardianship is in the mid sixties. and recently applied for rim, but there was a long waiting list. she doesn't see the no manual is a problem. if one gets involved with someone, a serious level, then as in any way shape you have that conversation, where sh