>> in all kinds of ways it can look real you could see videospitchers, the bells and whistles to appearrface which is why there is a risk. it is so hard that is why we advise people go for one of the charities that is known and has a track record or if you can do that the second-best thing is the one fund that is brand new but has repeated people with all of these other situations to be involved it is the second-best choice if you cannot find a traditional charity but remember the many may not get there as fast as space it. gerri: talk about newtown. this is astonishing millions of dollars raised all over the country most of it has not even gone to the families. is an outrage. >> partilarly horrible and one of the worst we have seen. it is quite inexcusable and it speaks to the attention wear some traditional charities from a the vetting process is so bureaucratic and slowed which is why the other effts try to create such as the one fund the national compassion fund that some victims tried to put together because traditional groups are taking so long. gerri: talk about the national comp