the game plan was always to paint this trunk the colors of the school i was going to, virginia commonwealth universityt it, and we weren't talking after. so at some point i decide, "you know what, i got to leave. i got to get out of here." just to break the silence, this is maddening. and i left on a friday, came back from wherever i went, and the trunk that was painted white... was painted black and yellow. and we never talked about it at all. but in that moment, i knew everything was okay again. and i also realized that she was never mad. she's a single mom, i'm her only kid, and this was the first moment when she realized her son was stepping out into the world. she wasn't dropping me off at college, she was dropping me into the world. and the world is a scary place. you find that out when you get older. i would take richmond over anywhere in the world, every day. just don't ask me to go over south side. (laughter) (cheers and applause) ♪ i was born and raised in dominican republic to a conservative, middle-class family, and for someone with my profile, the path to follow in life is, you go to scho