i do not make country music but one thing i am good at is making a vodka martini.very time i go there, they are always looking at their watch like when is that shaker coming out? i have been three times since. we've bonded. we have made three albums a. it became -- we played them live in the room together. tavis: somebody told me that serendipity tends to reward the prepared. obviously you spent your whole life preparing for moments like that. >> that is the wise comment and a brilliant thing for people to analyze. my whole thing, how you do so many things at once? my whole thing is based on that the truth you just said. i am going to let the universe bring to me whenever. i'm going to be open to receive it but i am also going to be prepared to change direction and go this way for a second and not be closed and try to control every moment of the day. if you do that, you can end up in the most amazing situations. like the road less traveled. tavis: the reason i ask is defense something has to be going on to be open to receive this. how can i believe you write the 13