waldinger: different ways.t you can bring curiosity even to that person who really annoys you. so one question you can ask yourself is, okay, i'm with this person who i don't like being with. what's here that i've never noticed before about this person ? and being curious about somebody goes a long way to making them feel seen and making them feel like you're interested in them. and even the most annoying people will respond warmly, usually to your genuine curiosity. so try bringing some curiosity to an old annoying relationship. ali: dr. robert waldinger with harvard medical school, thank you so much for your time. dr. waldinger: it was a pleasure. thank you for having me. ♪ john: five years ago, linda pistun set out to achieve two goalin her life -- end world hunger and improve science education in public schools. to that end, she took classes at the university of virginia this summer and in she added to her august. accomplishments by becoming a published author. all this at the age of 11. linda pearson joins