robert redfort, warren beatty and the ultimate charmer, my favorite, jfk jr. men of a past era. that era gone? >> is there a reason you are posing this question to me? >> no. >> i think charm to me is being engaged enough in people's life. charming is -- do you care about people and are you willing to go out of your way to help people. there is too much narcissim america. i agree. people just live in their own world and don't much think about other people. >> you can be very charming. the viewers may not believe it it, but you can be generous and kind and a good listener. >> he is always charming and nice. very nice to ladies. >> do you think maybe women feel this way because it could be their fault. they demanded men don't open the door for me and i can pay my own bills. guys are scared. >> that is a very, very legitimate argument. i try to open the door all the time and sometimes you get a look like don't do that. >> the women's bathroom, eric. >> but we talked about this. this is different from being charming. when he gets a trophy and all this nonsense. that's different. cha

all the president's men" and, um, "urban cowboy" and a lot of robert redford be movies, a lot of warren beatty movies and dustin hoffman movies. so i just wanted you to see what stanley looked like in his prime. stanley was a marine photographer in korea, and he took this picture which military times says is one of the ten -- one of the hundred best photographs showing military combat. i found it so moving that i included it in the book just to tell you a little bit about stanley. this, this on the face of it is a guest towel, one of those linen things your great aunt nelly might have had in her guest bathroom ironed, and it's embroidered with jfk. when i went through the marine corps trunk, i found this. now, i thought i knew everything about stanley. we were friends for years and years and years. but he never mentioned anything about this towel, and i could find no record of it in the trunk. i did wonder if maybe, maybe when he went to hyannis port one of those times he might have pin be. ed it. [laughter] -- pinched it. i don't know. and it could be that mrs. kennedy gave it to him. i doubt

carry grant, paul newman, robert wagner, robert redford, warren beatty, and the ultimate charmer, my jfk junior. charming men, but men of a past era. is that era gone? >> is there reason you pose me this question? >> no. >> okay. i think charm to me is being engaged enough in people's life, it doesn't have to be men towards women. charm is do you care about people, interested in people, go out of your way to help people. some exude too much charm. there's too much narcissism in america. i think people live in their own world, don't much think about other people. >> you can be very charming. i know viewers might not believe it, you can be very generous and kind and a good listener, which is very charming. >> he is always charming and nice. nice to the ladies. >> thank you. >> do you think women feel this way because it could be their fault? they demand of men don't open the door for me, i can pay my own bills, guys are scared to be charmin charming. feminism caused this. >> i try to open a door, sometimes you get that look. >> it is the women's bathroom, eric. >> perhaps. >> but a doo

neighborhood guy, and i remember i just finished seeing bonnie and clyde move back in the day with warren beattynd i forget the actress, faye dunaway. and i remember walking home that day and i said i'm going to rob a bank, just like bonnie and clyde used to. i was kicking rocks, you know. i was just a kid. >> how much money do you think you've gotten from your bank robberies all these years? >> i don't know. you might want to ask ceasar's palace or something. i have no idea. i never counted. >> torres says he didn't just gamble away his loot but was a modern-day robin hood. >> i would give money to homeless people when i see them on the street. i give them $100. i remember one time i was coming out of a bank and kids were out there at christmastime with the salvation army. he asked me for money. i go, i don't have any right now but i'll be right back. you can imagine what i did, okay? >> now 49 years old, torres started his career as a bank robber when he was only 17, and he claims all of his robberies have been non-violent. >> i would go in there and basically just pass the note. i never used

. >> this movie helped usher in a new era of more authentic characters and story telling and warren beattyumber three. >> which a lot of people would say is the best movie ever made. interesting movie with sort of another war movie off the warner brothers assembly line and it just turned out perfectly. >> all right. number two is a tie. godfather i and ii. i might have put it higher. why did you guys pick it? >> it was as brilliant artistically as it was big in it's ambitions. it was one of the movies of the new golden era of hollywood. >> and the number one movie, citizen kane. >> citizen kane. so innovative at the time in it's cinematography and music it feels ahead of it's time. >> the most recent movie, time warp, but that's okay. >> a lot of newer movies on the list. only doing the top five. >> top five tv shows and number five, sopranos. >> this show really showed the appeal of the antihero. this extreme family dealing with basic things. it was brilliant. >> four is the mary tyler moore show and seinfeld at number three. proud of that here in the nbc family. >> one of those shows you