it wasser hard. i've been through a number of significant challenges in my lifetime. i was raped when i was a young woman with my first boyfriend, and really suffered from that, but then moving on, going through an episode of domestic violence and just really difficult time in my marriage, and those were all things i really did not want to share publicly, but i was obviously going through a very public divorce a couple years ago, and that information came out through that process, and i had so many other women and a few men that had reached out of to me and had said, you know what, joni you have gone through these challenges, went on to be a lieutenant commander, now a united states senator, and it is good for other people to hear that you can go through these life-altering events but still overcome them and move on to better days, and so that's what i hope that i can share with some of the readers, is that you do have challenges in your lifetime but there are opportunities. the next day is a new day, and you can find joy in your lifetime. >> host: in your book, daugh