wendy walsh, i'm reading your mind right now. going, oh, hell, no! and my other guest is yelling, yes, yes, yes. wendy, let us have it, go! >> i want to say one thing about every blog that you read that says cheating has worked and it was great for the relationship. it's always in past tense. the relationship is over, it ended for a reason. no, cheating is all about lying, deceit, betrayal, bringing a potential std into your relationship, maybe a stalker woman out there. it is not a good thing. >> steve, you write about these issues in your new book called "code of honor." is there a difference between cheating in a marriage or cheating on your boyfriend or girlfriend or is it fair game for all relationships? >> no, it's all the same. the problem is that human beings invented the term cheating. cheating doesn't occur in nature. a deer can't cheat on a bear. the irony -- >> yes, yes, yes! >> don, ready for this? the irony is i bet a guy invented cheating so his woman would never leave him. and men have been the worst over history at cheating. the point

right up psychologist wendy walsh's alley, whose mind i'm reading right now. going heck no. t, wendy, let us have it, go. >> i want to say one thing about every blog that you read that says cheating has worked and great for the relationship. it is always in past tense, the relationship is over. it ended for a reason. no, cheating is all about lying, deceit, betrayal, bringing a potential std into the relationship, maybe a stalker woman out there. it is not a good thing. >> all right, i have one lady on the set here nodding her head yes. so steve, you write about these issues in your new book, called "code of honor," is there a difference cheating on your girlfriend, boyfriend, or do you think it is fair game for all of these relationships? >> no, it is all the same, human beings invented the term cheating, deer can't cheat, with a rabbit, or a bear -- but dawn, are you ready for this? the irony, is that a bet a guy invented cheating so that his woman would never leave him. and then men have been the worst in history about cheating. the point of the matter is, stay single, don

human behavior expert, wendy walsh, joins us to explain the color of sex.tes versus blue states. are they different? >> yes, there absolutely is. okay, everybody, turn up the tv. here we go. this from a fabulous book called "premarital sex in america" by dr. mark regenvis from the university of texas. he has a chapters on red sex and blue sex. it's our mating strategies. basically, conservatives tend to marry earlier. they most often have sex within the confines of marriage except for evangelical teen girls because they have a high teenage pregnancy rate. besides that, they tend to have since they get married earlier, have sex earlier, have more kids earlier, they have lots of divorces and ultimately have more marriages. i don't mean to say that liberals -- >> you say ultimately have more marriage or more divorces? >> yes -- >> you meant divorces? >> well, more divorce and more marriages. both. >> liberals? >> so liberals have less time to have all those divorce because they delay marriage. because they have sex more often out of wedlock. more abortions. co

wendy walsh is a human behavior expert, of course we're going to ask her that.ws a lot about relationships, specifically, x sex, that is actually in the prompter. so is there a difference between red state sex and blue state sex? >> yes, there absolutely is. okay everybody, turn up your tv, here we go. this from a fabulous book called "pre marital sex," you should get a copy of this book. his whole chapter on red sex, blue sex, our mating strategies. basically, conservatives tend to marry earlier and most often have sex within the confines of the marriage, especially teenage girls. since they get married earlier, have sex earlier, have more kids earlier, they have time to have lots of divorces, so they ultimately have more marriages. liber liberals, on the other hand -- wait a minute, you said more marriages or divorces. >> more marriages, more divorces. >> okay, liberal? >> so liberals have less time to have the marriages, because they delay marriages and have more sex out of marriage, they have more abortions, conservatives are more likely to have more aborti

wendy walsh is back to keep us in line. >> that's right. >> are you advocating violence here?lutely not. you know, the thing that really tripped me out about that video was people started going off after he punched her. they should have been going off when she was spitting on him, when she was going off on him for like three minutes. i watched a clip, three minutes before he punched her. he's taking this being berated by this woman and people didn't say anything. he punched her and she started losing their minds. should have happened sooner. >> i disagree. no one should have been going off. they should have been sitting in their seats like good passengers and that bus driver should have been behaving like an employee -- >> wendy, wendy -- >> what, what? >> i want you to listen to this. play "the view" for me. >> got suspended but i bet when he gets back on that bus nobody is going to do that to him. nobody is going to get in his face. sometimes you got to show people you cannot do that. >> i'm sorry, women have this idea that you can hit and punch on a man and it's okay -- and

wendy walsh and full-figure supermodel emmy. i said i'm surrounded by beautiful blonds, i feel like charlie of "charlie's angels." good to see you, thank you body for being here. so i want to throw this out there. wendy, if you're a public figure, if you're in the public spotlight, do you have a responsibility when it comes to your appearance? just the appearance. >> no. i think you have a responsibility to be moral, to be ethical, and to be honest. i think as far as your appearance is concerned, i take exception with the viewer who called this a choice for obesity. no one chooses to be overweight. >> i agree. >> no one chooses to be obese. this is a very complicated cocktail of biology, environment, and psychology. and it's not simply a behavioral choice. >> okay. let me play devil's advocate. no one chooses to be overweight? >> absolutely not, or anorexic. >> many people will say, you do, it's a lifestyle choice, food choices that you make. emmy, you're very much in the public spotlight, what are your thoughts on this? >> i de

relationship expert, wendy walsh, says while it seems surprising, long-term relationships can end fordren moving out of the house. or you simply fall out of love. >> this is not a relationship failure. this is a successful 30-year relationship that's in transition. >> reporter: devito and perlman's marriage is not the first high-profile long-term relationship to fizzle in 2010, after four decades of seemingly wedded bliss, former vice president al gore and his wife, tipper, announced their separation. eddie van halen and actress valerie bertinelli split in 2007, after 26 years of marriage. 56 the split will be difficult, after a history together will be pain. >> there wl be grandchildren. there will be reasons to stay connected for the rest of their lives. >> reporter: for "good morning america," paula faris, abc news, new york. >> we wish them both the very best. lara, over to you. >>> boy, the tabled turned last night on "dancing with the stars," when the stars got to take over creative control of their dances. and we saw some big risks on the dance floor. >> it was iconic dance wee

last night i discussed wit wendy wal walsh. >> calling it bullying is insane because we loosely use thisit is hip in the popside culture. these were two human beings community kating with each other with different means of communication. he had a blog, she had her television microphone and camera. these were adults communicating their opinions. >> there was a line as a reporter crossed. however, it was perfect timing with the culture of being as hot and as really urgent for body culture, the obesity situation, how stereo types really hurt. words hurt. and i think it was the last straw. >> and here's the other question, fred, was the viewer right? do we enable people in this country who are addicted to food and overeating? some people it is medical, but most people in the country are overweight because of food choices. bad food choices and bad lifestyle choices. i'm going to speak to an addiction doctor who says the whole thing about thyroids is usually an excuse. there are very few number of people with issues and their thyroids. it's an excuse for something else. >> we'll be watching it