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wendy walsh is here to tell us how to avoid the holiday blues. and if you think of classics like it's a wonderful life and miracle of 34th street, we'll talk about some of the classics you may not have heard of. >>> we begin with a look back at some of the natural disasters that after -- afflicted so many americans. >> reporter: first the sirens. then the frantic race to take cover. some in basements. others in bathtubs. the final warning is unmistakab unmistakable. an erie stillness blankets the land. two f-5 level tornados ripped through oklahoma. winds crashed through neighborhoods at nearly 300 miles an hour. >> this was one of the biggest and strongest tornados ever. his wind field and intensity were among the strongest that have been ever observed. >> reporter: this scientist approached the tornado with his research team. after scanning in he knew the risk was to high to move forward. but nearby a group of tornado tornado. >> once inside it is very difficult to maneuver. the winds are maybe blowing 70, 100 miles an hour. >> reporter: tim, h

and i found this surprising, if not shocking, so i invited psychologist wendy walsh to come chat. ndy, welcome back to the show, first of all. you watched this, i'm sure like i did, it seems the judge bought the story from the defense who said the kid was suffering from affluenza, affluent and enza, a disease, his wealthy parents let him get away with pretty much anything. it sounded outrageous to me. what did you think? is there something to this? >> well, it sounds outrageous to all of us, but it's important, dr. gupta, to remember that there are two arguments and two things that we should consider when we're thinking about this case. first is the idea of social class, is this a rich guy getting off because his parents can afford it? and the other issue is age. you know, the legal system looks at people under the age of 18 as partly being rehabilitatable because they have a developing brain. so, i think that maybe in this case the legal system looked at this terrible, terrible tragedy and said, really, what is best for society? for this young 16-year-old to be put in prison, take

joining me to discuss this human behavior yal is expert wendy walsh and wendy, listen, i listened tomissing a layup, there's, it's not just academics. my friends and i were laughing that we couldn't even get into the colleges we actually attended with the pressures on kids today. >> it's true. i think parents have so much anxiety because they hear reports of the kids in china doing so great and we've got to catch up with their academic standard, but as a result, they're forgetting to teach their kids about the meaning of life and ways to find happiness. in this great american capitalist society, it seems that the only definition of happiness is to get into a good school and make money. research is very clear. that does not equate to happiness. >> it's fascinating because as i was watching this piece, i realized the mom was a friend of mine from college and she was one of the coolest, most laid back people i met, so it's interesting her kids, is it intragram, electronics, the social, media pressure that's turning these kids into type aa plus kids. >> let's break it down and not blame