and i think those were the things that wendy wasserstein was grappling with. >> i don't blame any of us. we're all concerned, intelligent, good women. >> brown: elisabeth moss says it was a big speech in the second act, when heidi holland has been asked to speak at her high school alma mater that helped her find her way into the character. it's a speech questioning whether or not she made the right decisions in her personal and professional life. >> i thought the point was, we were all in this together. >> it's a beautiful speech. i think that this feeling of-- and especially of this generation of that "i thought we were having this thing together. i thought we were not making choices together. and so i did that. and now, i'm alone." and she feels, as she says, she feels stranded. >> brown: moss, from a later generation, says the "have it all" issue still resonates for her. >> i mean, the thing that i find most interesting about that phrase is that men are never asked it. and because men are never questioned whether they can have it all, they just can. >> brown: and yet you don't, do