growing up in a regular household and westport, connecticut, all those years with the really thoughtful stepfather. stepparents never get any credit. you always to the bad stories, but there are a lot of stepparents out there, mothers and fathers, who out of love for their spouse assume the responsibility for kids from another family, and he certainly did that for me. tavis: you talked about growing up in connecticut, he went back east. you went to bermuda to live. that experience has been good? >> my mother is from bermuda, so i had a lot of memories when i was a kid. we used to go down to bermuda lot. then when catherine and i first got married, it was all a little crazy. i went down there was with her on the holidays. she said, i like this place, they drivroad. the next thing we knew, we moved down and had our children and raise them down there until this year, and then come back up to new york. it was a very nice experience. tavis: i saw something the other night where they caught you somewhere. what do you make of how crazy the media spectacle is? hollywood has always been under th