jacob wetterling was my best friend. they were kind of the family that was willing to try anything. >> it looked like you had it just really kind of all laid out very nicely with your family and -- >> we did. we were happy. everybody was busy. well, you can see busy in this calendar. >> and this was 1989? >> 1989. this is january. i mean, it -- every month. >> wow. this one is jammed. >> yeah. well, this was school, back to school, so you've got everything going on, and then this is october. >> now this is the month that you'll -- >> yeah. >> -- never forget. >> right. >> october 1989. >> october 22nd. pretty much everything stops. it goes to nothing. it just stopped. >> october 22nd, 1989 is a very vivid date in my memory. it was a sunday. we didn't have school the next day for some reason. >> jacob and i went fishing at a nearby lake. he had been practicing for a hockey tryout, and he was just crazy, having trouble staying on his skates. it was just really bugging him, so i suggested we go fishing. we had a really nice