whatu are 18 years old and -- married. did you take a honeymoon? >> america became our honeymoon. >> when did you leave india? >> probably one week or so. he went home for five days of vacation total. as soon as i got my passport and visa, we left. >> where did you go? >> and what did you do he was getting his ph.d., what did you do when you arrived? >> i within a month he took me to the graduate advisor at purdue in political science department. and he translated my dialogue with him and i said i want admission for masters. and he said, well, you know, you're not old enough and you probably should do a couple of years of bachelor's degree. and i can understand why because i was not able to even speak english. and as argumentative and as, you know, rigid-headed as i am, i said, well i finished my bachelor's. i have degree here. i want to do masters. and i was doing my masters. >> so this professor frank wilson, at purdue who was the graduate director at that time, he passed away, unfortunately, too a couple of years ago. he said, ok, i'll let you t