when i am somebody else" -- >> a person named jay grey recorded a song "i only know who i am when i am somebody else." i brought it hope. i was impressed with the singer. i recorded some of his songs on my new album. my wife was listening to the songs. she said, what is that? i said j.j. grey had written it. i'm going to record it. she said that's you. you don't know who the hell you are. that's how the title came about. in the beginning, they didn't want to use the title but i said it's necessary for me to have it because it's me. am i a pool hustler, a petty thief, a union organizer? who am i? who is danny aiello? the only time i knew who i was was when i was playing a character. i knew exactly what i was going to say because it was written for me. >> charlie: but you don't know who you are other than the characters you play? >> yes, i have great difficulty understanding exactly who i am till this day. >> charlie: what have been the triumoffs? >> to succeed at something in the beginning of my life i never intended to do. i never thought i could be an actor. it wasn't on my agend

"i onlyemoir is called know who i am when i am somebody else."to see you. >> charlie, great seeing you. i remember the times, charlie. you're the best, you haven't changed. >> thank you for joining us. see you next time. ♪ ♪ >> i am here in the heart of london square for a leaders' lunch like no other. top powerbrokers jointly at the table for the year ahead. me than ao tell banker, and insurer, and an admi advertising person.

am i a pool hustler, a petty thief, a union organizer, who am i?nly time i knew who i was was when i was playing a character. i knew what i was going to say because it was written for me. >> do you know who you are other than the characters? >> i have great difficulty understanding who i am to this day. >> what is the triumph you want us to know about? >> to succeed at something at the beginning of my life i never thought i could do. it was not on my agenda. i had no idea. to me, hollywood was like -- how do you get to hollywood? i'm a new york kid. the triumph of becoming an actor, not wanting to, but once i did and i achieved that, i knew it was the only thing in life for me. to escape into other people. when i have pain, the greatest times is to fall into a character and forget about the pain in real life. that is what acting has done for me. >> when you talk about the pain, what are you talking about? >> the loss of my son, danny, one of the top stunt coordinators in the business. the healthiest, most beautiful young man you have ever seen in y

church teaching has not changed, the tone, the approach, his attitude towards people, i think who am ot of people, dismiss that as unimportant. i think it was very important and marked a water shed by a lot of people who felt judge and feel very welcome. >> then you get his spec actions with other cardinals, cardinal burke, cardinal raymond burke, very conservative. opposed the pope verbally, vocally, a head of the vatican supreme court. gone. >> 83, he is not afraid to make changes. a friend of mine that knows him, says the man is not afraid of anything or anyone, very i just finished a couple books, reading a couple bucs on him. he had a difficult time in argentina. he had to deal with the junta there, very prayerful and hopeful is there we have two practicing catholics here, donny deutsche -- >> is the reaction as positive on the inside of the church and would you tell me? >> yes it is and i would tell you. it is, there are some people who are still a little threatened i would say by this openness and who are not his big fans, but i think, you know, for the most part, people are de

if you have a million dollars or a billion dollars or whatever the figure is to spend on politics, who ami or who are you or who's the government, certainly, to say you can't use the money to advocate for whoever you want to or advocate for a politician who believes what they believe. what's your response to somebody who believes that? >> guest: it's an easy answer. i also want a first amendment right for people that are elected. you have to have the right to say no to somebody. and when you have that much money over, when that money's available every day, which is nonstop campaigning, you don't have a right to say no as a member of congress or even at the statehouse level. yet you can't say no when there is no time limit on that money. you know, i think conservatives, there is a point to it, but does that mean that you have to raise money every single day? you know, the billion dollars when these folks -- i think we're looking at almost a $4 billion midterm here. >> host: yep. >> guest: that money's going to find its way into the system. but if you actually restrict the time on it that t

it's kind of weird, being the new person, and especially who i am. but just like mom used to make. >> i think it will be good in the long run to get me out of the cell hall and break up the monotony as far as being depressed. >> really, it's all good? and you have to wear that hair net? >> i'm kind of having a bad hair day today, you know. >> that's what it is today. >> michael cherry works as a prison porter, but finds other ways to supplement his income. >> he doesn't do this for free. >> he'll pay me tokens or stamps or i might want some christmas canteen. >> not that we're bartering. we're not bartering. >> have a good night! >> cherry, burzee and royanna share a connection that makes their prison time a little easier to deal with. but another inmate doesn't want to connect with anyone. we met timothy shriver earlier in our state when he was making life miserable for everyone around him. >> you're the enemy. >> since he's been at this facility, he's attempted to incite other offenders. >> i'm going to get you good. you dumb [ bleep ]. >> been dis

i think we can be friends. >> who am i to judge after spending $60,000? who is we? >> can you imagine being his girlfriend? it is like he would be the guy asking was that informed consent? you consent to that? get out and find me somebody who will really get this done. >> what do you make of all of this? do you see yourself as a fighter against privilege? >> i see myself as a person with a lot of nice things. sometimes when someone feels my umbrella i think i really hope they needed that. they probably -- >> i did. >> i am okay. he opens up the argument and is it the woman's fault she is raped because of her womanhood that she possesses? >> that was my -- the answer is no. >> i did steal your umbrella. you don't want it back. go ahead and defend your new hero oliver freefeld. >> finally someone stands up for all of the muggies out there. he is not entirely wrong. mothers probably were not born bad. i have seen trading places. i know how this works. but, look, this whole thing -- it might be satire. i am not convinced this is not satire. >> are you doing this whole i

i am glad to be here today and i want to thank all of the parties involved and those who sat down with us and despite the lamb and the chicken the negotiations were tough and i am glad that we came to some good compromises and a legislation that i am really excited to see driven by youth and youth leadership, and i am board member with the arab american grocer's association and i am the only young person on it they are all like my uncles. so it is tough to fight for what you believe in in the city and what i believe in too and we can't overlook that small, family businesses who survive and live in a changing landscape and i am the third generation of a story in district six and the south of market neighborhood since 1967. so, thank you for letting us a small businesses and stake holders and san francisco be a part of this work. >> thank you. >> high, high name is emily and i am 17 years old and i go to good side international which is in the sunset and i have grown up in the mission district my life and i have been born and raise there had and i can tell that there is a difference in t

i am glad to be here today and i want to thank all of the parties involved and those who sat down with us and despite the lamb and the chicken the negotiations were tough and i am glad that we came to some good compromises and a legislation that i am really excited to see driven by youth and youth leadership, and i am board member with the arab american grocer's association and i am the only young person on it they are all like my uncles. so it is tough to fight for what you believe in in the city and what i believe in too and we can't overlook that small, family businesses who survive and live in a changing landscape and i am

>> much more fun here and confident about who i am. i know who i am more. my favorite decade. i've had more fun in this decade than any other. >> there is an article where they talk about the midlife crisis. it begins to dissipate after age 50. you get happier and happier as you get older. >> as long as someone find you attractive. [laughter] it be different story if they didn't. >> what is your redline of things you would do to keep yourself good-looking? what would you do or not do? --i would not we are awake wear a wig. i'm happy with my hairline as it is. >> botox? >> i've had botox, yeah. like a line there. it works from the outside in. it stops you worrying. i wouldn't do anything else. >> right, no plastic surgery. you did it twice. you don't need to do it again. >> >> i don't need to. i'm gorgeous. [laughter] >> you have mentioned, you have gone to a stage in your life where you do not need to work. you're quite wealthy. you mentioned you don't want to leave your kids all this money. trust fund kids. >> has never been an issue in my house. my kids a

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oh, who am i kidding her back door, it's fine. i don't care. i haven't been home in some time. so, did the poet laureate of nevada real estate get good news or bad news. >> diverting a government shut down. >> a one strippian bill -- >> a bill to keep the federal government lights on. >> what we're talking about here is a monumental achievement. >> jon: no, no, no, no it's not. harry reid has been home. i know expectations for congress is low. the only way keeping the lights on is a monumental achievement is if you're a maccabee and your menorah has one night of -- everyone's astonishment the government lights burned for a entire fiscal year. that is why we celebrate the miracle of congressca, budgetca. what are we going into debt for this year. >> immigration $5.2 billion. >> mill teary . >> 5.4 billion for ebola. jon: sorry joe biden. i bet he hears that a lot. sir, we can not serve you without a shirt, sorry joe biden. this meter does not take chuckie cheese tokens. sorry, joe biden. it sounds like standard budget stuff. there. >> this would do away with the ban on incandesc

>> who am i kidding? i'm a city boy. i need some cream. >> you need some cream? >> yeah.e here. come on. who am i kidding? >> we're also joined by dan flores, respected authority, professor of history. author of the book "horizontal yellow: nature and history in the southwest." >> how spanish is new mexico still? how powerful are the echoes from spain? >> spain was in control of new mexico for far longer than mexico was. i think a lot of these new mexican families are 10 generation and 11 generation. when they look back on themselves, they think of themselves as spanish. >> those traditions, they've continued to thrive in these little pockets. we're cut off from spain. so i once worked with people from spain and they kept cutting up and snickering at me. what they told me was okay, you can knock it off with the don quixote phraseology. the equivalent of me today, talking saying "top of the morning to you, sir." >> really? >> and they were like, stop making fun of us. and i said you know what? i'm not making fun of you. that's the way we speak. we go see grandpa, that's al

>> it was more about ease with who i am. st growing up and realizing instead of me trying to figure out who i want you to think i am, i have got to embrace who i am and be at peace. >> not only at peace but be happy about it. >> and be happy with who i am. it is about growing up. i stopped doing all that stuff it 30 but it truly was not until my , that is whenk things really changed in terms through lifewalked and this idea of stardom that we are talking about, everything got put in perspective. >> did you come home to be with him? >> yeah. t init" was shopt philadelphia. i stayed and took care of him. i was with him when he took his last wrath. -- breath. i came home and he died two weeks later. i was blessed enough - watching youry in father spent his last few days on earth is? >> the reality of mortality. it does end. i am watching, it it is over, he is gone. that becomes a reality, everything changes. everything changes. everything was put in perspective. i did not sweat so much. so much anymore. the things that i used to

you, stephen hawking, are such -- folks, who am i kidding? you didn't come here tonight, you didn't tune in to hear me call stephen hawking an a-hole. although there is little doubt. [laughter] no, you tuned in to hear me make a big announcement. [cheers and applause] oh, oh, this announcement's going to be intense. now, if you caught my warm-up act, you'll know that jon stewart made his big announcement. [laughter] personally i thought he was going to finally admit to killing and eating mo rocca back in 2003. [laughter] he made all of us eat his rocca-tacos. [as jon stewart]: so delicious but no, ladies and gentlemen, it turns out jon's announcement was something far more disturbing. jon tonight i announce the rally to restore sanity. we will gather on the national mall in washington, d.c., a million moderate march. it seems like a pretty reasonable request. see you october 30th on the national mall spreading the timeless message -- take it down a notch. [laughter] for america. >> stephen: well, i am sorry, jon stewart,ly not take it down a

chaefsky conditioned milton berle and me she said to me, listen, if that's what they want to do, who am i to say? that's my mother. that should tell you everything. >> "all in the family" for a moment. i'm a little younger. >> are you? >> i didn't see the originals, but i loved the show. i remember the ing episode where archie bunker repeatedly used the word fag. why use that word so many times in one episode? >> came from the fact that that was the word that one would hear in the schoolyard, around the subway, you didn't have to know the people who were talking if they passed you in the street and you might hear the word. so it wasn't like we were reaching for something. it was the culture and the vocabulary. and we used them. >> did that show open a conversation and a dialogue in this country that hadn't happened before? >> you know what i've learned? every episode for people opened the conversation. because i go through life hearing people tell me all the time, and afterwards we talked we talked, we talked, my father was like that, or wasn't like that, my uncle was, but people talked

who am i talking to? >> darren spears from the top of mount everest.ve it, i did it. >> seth: hey, hey congratulations. [ cheers and applause ] >> what a view! i've been training for this for years. and my boss said i'd never do it. well, look at me now, steve. i'm on top of the -- oh, my god, i'm falling! i'm falling so far! i see a branch and i'm gonna try to grab it! no, the branch just ripped off my pants. >> seth: that doesn't sound good. i'm going to see if i can find somebody else. >> hello? hello? >> seth: hello. >> hi. who am i speaking to? >> seth: this is seth meyers from "late night." who is this? >> this is judy goodman of woodfield farm in watersburg, maine. >> seth: hey, judy. so, woodfield farm? what do you guys do up there? >> well, seth, we have a 60-acre farm full of free roaming dairy cows which we use to make the most delicious and fresh organic dairy products like butters and cheeses. >> seth: that sounds great, judy. >> but we spend most our time stockpiling ammunition for judgment day, as foretold in the film "terminator 2." woo

. >> it's not a bad thing but at the same time i always want to stay true to who i am. >> stephen: andendrick lamar. >> stephen: we are going to ask you-- this confuses me, if you're straight out of compton-- by the way, you hang out with dre? >> yeah. >> stephen: you say you don't smoke pot so do you guys just talk about, like, headphones and stuff like that. >> yeah, definitely, definitely mplets straight-up compton. kendrick lamar. why did you decide-- like rappers take stage names, like big small. why did you choose to name jurlz after anna depend rick and senator lamar alexander. >> i just wanted to be true to myself. >> stephen: you got a lot of attention for a song last year, it's called "swimming pool." okay, and in that song you got a lyric here that says get a swimming pool full of liquor and dive in. have you thought about selling that to the good poo people at dewar's? >> i haven't thought about that. >> stephen: just add the word "responsibly" at the end. hey, listen, listen, there, listen, there kendrick lamar. ( cheers and applause ) i understand-- my understanding is th

this is what made me who i am. 's really how you react to adversity that shows who you are as a person. >> coming up next, it's more than a story about a stanford football player. it's a story about fighting adversity in your life. . >> plus, you can call him one lucky dog. home alone, he stumbled out of a 15-floor window and fell to the ground. the miraculous landing that could mean he'll be walking in just weeks. >> temperatures cooling off rapidly. coming up, the areas that will be in the upper 20s first thing tomorrow morning and i'll let you know if we have rain clouds to talk about for the rest of the year. . >>> austin tubbs is the third string long snapper for his football team. he's not on scholarship. why is his story so significant? >> austin has tourette's syndrome, rare for a varsity athlete. scott reiss reports the neurological disorder helped define an unlikely team hero. ♪ >> reporter: if you blink, you might miss it. austin tubbs blinks often, yet misses nothing. >> i blink sporadically, which is ni

but my mother, why must you down me, know what i'm saying, for being gay, for being who i am.you think of the person that's going to be there for you, that's the person that uplifts you. you get picked on at school she say everything okay, you're still beautiful. but growing up, it was the other way around. >> crawford says other problems at home, including suffering sexual molestation from a family friend, caused her to lose the things that she valued and that her rage led to crime. >> it got to the point i was rebelling against everybody. i felt like i'm going to be hurt i want everybody hurt around me. that's why i would go to juvenile for assault and battery. you know what i'm saying? a whole lot of stuff. i was a rebel, i really was. you couldn't tell me nothing, you couldn't control me. that's why i was so out of control, because i hated to be controlled, you know. >> now at age 20, crawford is awaiting trial on a charge of drug trafficking. prosecutors have just offered her a plea deal to serve 85% of her 15-year sentence, or about 12 years. still reluctant to accept th

. >> because of them i am who i am today. >> reporter: and who she is pretty special. rama wanted to pay forward some of her new friend's kindness. already far ahead in her studies rama saw an opportunity with a handful of fellow students struggling to pass the california high school exit exam. >> i want to my english teacher and asked her if i could coach these students. >> reporter: the rest they say is history. or in rama's case math science, and english as well. every day at lunch and all day on friday she leads a team of peer tutors. rama has by herself tutored more than 120 fellow students. >> you personally have tutored about half the school. >> yeah. >> reporter: her teachers are understandably grateful. >> she's an incredible model of compassion. >> reporter: not just compassion, but dedication as well and proof that a little bit of kindness can go a long, long way. >> okay. whew! >> now a senior rama says the club is still going strong. there are some days when there is a line out the door, waiting for time with the tutor. nbc bay area news. >> if you know of

to peel back the layers and let my listeners and viewers see this is who i am.onal but i'm all about real estate as well. that's my passion. >> egypt has always been driven by her desire to see more people from our communities taking initiative and ownership. >> when you sit dormant and just collect a paycheck, you're letting someone else be the master of your destiny. pick up a black enterprise magazine and read about the things you should be doing. wealth preservation is important. you can make $200,000 a year but do you know how to make that money work for you and make compounded interest so you can retire. >> egypt also has her own foundation and makes it a point to stay grounded. >> if you see me and my head seems like it's too big, which should never happen because working with my foundation givesmy me a greater sense of purpose as to why god has afforded me the opportunity to talk to millions of people or be on television in front of millions of people to empower them. >> coming up, we serve another slice of life. when you set out to find new roads you ob

who am i speaking with? >> this is dr. in antarctic outpost 34. >> seth: oh, hey doctor. antarctica? that's cool. what are you doing out there? >> you know, a little of this. a little of that. mostly experiments. >> seth: oh, what kind of experiments are you doing? >> i'm studying the effects of daily consumption of whiskey on my own body. [ laughter ] >> seth: so it sounds like you're just drinking? >> you sound like my penguin wife. [ laughter ] >> seth: sorry, did you say penguin wife? >> yeah, what's it to you? [ penguin quacks ] >> quiet woman. never mind who i'm talking to. [ laughter ] i said i'll take out the trash after dinner! >> seth: okay. you know, i can go if this is a bad time. [ penguin quacks ] >> i can't be mad at that pretty face. come here and give me a smooch on that beak of yours. [ laughter ] >> seth: okay, you know what? i'm going to just go. i'm going to give you guys some privacy. let's see who else we can find out there. >> hi, welcome to wendy's. may i take your order? >> seth: oh, i'm sorry. th

>> i am who i am today because of it.on't think i came out too bad. >> no, no -- >> after jumping the hurdles and going through ups and downs, but -- >> now you bounce back. >> yeah. yeah. >> i know we don't know each other that well. but i know i'm going to get to know you. i'm going to make a -- you're going to be a big part of my life, honey, you and emily. >> i just want you to be there. >> i'm going to be there, you know what i mean? >> life is too short. >> it is. >> we waste time. >> i know. >> one week after his reunion with rayven, slagle received horrible news. it's just ordinary fleece but the comfort it provides is immeasurable. the america red cross brings hope and help to people in need every 8 minutes, every day. so this season give something that means something. >>> just days after seeing his daughter for the first time in eight years, ray slagle received horrible family news. his twin brother, roy, is back in prison. >> i talked with my mom and my mom told me that roy, he went to the parole office drunk.

volunteers have always stepped up to staff the shift. >> who am i going to get to come over here and sleep overnight. stay up all night, new year's eve who are volunteers and we're bringing in movies and we're just going to be warm. >> reporter: half the homeless in contra costa county are families. she knows what it's like to be cold after living in a foreclosure with no electricity. >> what is it like? >> you can't put enough blankets on at once and it's that cold, you're outside and you don't have heat. >> reporter: seven families are usually here. but because of the cold temps, an extra two families are sleeping with extra cots on stand by. >> we have more people coming in to us. >> reporter: finding a warm place for the homeless to stay the next few nights is really critical. >> plus, the fact that we have a lot of women that are expecting babies that are out there. >>> contra costa churches offer shelter to homeless. but not everyone is getting warm, and for some that will mean a trip to the emergency room or perhaps even death. >> especially people who have chronic help issues.

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"i am who i am. i will be what i will be. i'll do what i want to do. just tell them i am has sent me." now, god is a great god, an awesome god. so many things that we can have questions about, but instead of that he wants to hear, "i trust you." we have to not know and be satisfied. we have to come to a place in our walk with god where even though it doesn't seem fair or doesn't feel right that we love god enough and trust him enough that we know that whatever's going on in our life that he's still in control and that if we keep trusting him, he will work it out for our good. in john chapter 20, jesus was dealing with thomas and "jesus said to him, because you have seen me now, thomas, do you now believe (trust, and have faith)? well, blessed and happy and to be envied are those who have never seen me and yet have believed and adhered to and trusted and relied on me." blessed are those who believe and have not seen. blessed are those who believe and do not understand. you know, i've heard many testimonies throughout my years of ministry and read many b

so by telling my mother's story, i am --ins so much wh who i am. she used to say that god saved me so that i could give you life. and by giving you life you brought my life back. you are my freedom. this is where this little girl, this little belgium girl with curly hair, that was the thing she was told, you are my freedom. that explains -- you know me well -- doesn't that explain? >>. and more. -- that and more. she died in 19? >> 2001. >> should live to see you come to new york -- she lived to see you come to new york to become the woman who became? >> she met two of my grandchildren. she took care of my children and she was a part of my life. >> she was a tiger mom, you say. meeting? ?- meaning what i was afraid of the dark she locked me in because it. that's if he was sitting here, >> ifuld say to her -- she was sitting here, you would say to her? >> thank you. i would say thank you to her and she would say thank you to me because in many ways i was a vengeance. -- or vengeance >> you say this book was written with blood. >> i opened my heart a

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she made me who i am. she is the one who instilled pride in me.before my grand mother. she did tell me her mom, katherine jackson, died in childbirth. she didn't know much about her dad, except his name harry rivault and that he was white. i always wished i asked my grandmother more about them. so my mom and i asked michelle ericenbrach from ancestry.com to dig through the record books and see what she could find. >> why don't we start by you telling me what -- about your grandmother or your mother. >> she was very nice very good mother. >> she was very outspoken. she was very outspoken. >> all i ever knew was her mother died in childbirth and her dad was -- >> harry. >> and she just didn't talk about it? >> she just didn't talk about it that much because my daddy didn't like it at all. >> because harry is white. >> and because of the way he was with her. you know like a secret about who your child is. and because you're white and she's black. >> this is him in 1910. he's married. and odill is his wife. what this looks like is part of the reason w

. >> people know who i am. >> they don't know you, your work, man, they know the guy from the bird suit who goes and tells stories on letterman. >> sorry if i'm popular. >> popular? popular? popularity is just bloody little cousin of-- my friend. >> i done even know what the-- that means. >> it means my reputation is riding on this and that is worth a lot. >> exactly. if this doesn't work out for you you go back to your video, and dive back into that cultural genocide are you perpetrating. a douchebag is born every minute, that was pd barnum's premise when he invented the circus and nothing much has changed. you know if you put out-- any piece of crap people will line up to see it but long after you are gone i will be on that stage earning my living, bearing my soul wrestling with complex mum emotion, that is what we do. >> is that what tonight, you wrestling with complex emotion. >> tonight was about being alive. this isn't a-- new york city is how we do things. >> where are you going? >> they have coffee here. >> what is interesting about "birdman" and boy you knee it after you had th