language that's going to immediately shut down the conversation -- i don't know if you're familiar withed godwin's law, talks about how long before an online discussion deinvolves into someone calls someone else aeneas simple there's a certain thing that happens where a word is thrown out there and there's no word for any further discussion. i'm trying to avoid that in the book and the way i approach people on a day-to-day basis. having said that, if i sense that someone is being untruthful or deceitful, i confront that, at least as i see it. >> host: ron miller you talk about a year you spent living in lake charles, louisiana. that's one of the worst years of your young life. why? >> guest: well, as a military brat, growing up in integrated schools and not being accustomed to a school where you had predominantly black students in the student body, and the attitudes that came with it. here i am, a kid that dressed a certain way, spoke a certain way. had a certain level of respect for authority. and you put me into an environment where those kinds of things were not held in regard, and i was ridicu

fox's dan godwin is live in arlington, texas, one of the cities now trying to cope with the devastation reporter: good morning. arlington is a city about midway between dallas and ft. worth. one. the cities hit hardest by yesterday's tornado. from what we understand, 150 homes in arlington have some kind of damage but that number expected to climb as people get out this morning and survey what is left behind after all of the devastation. we've got some of of the damage to show you right here. this suv lifted up off the street by the ferocious winds, pushed across this front lawn into this tree and right negotiation door, an even more remarkable scene. the entire second floor of that home torn off by the tornado that roared through this neighborhood in southwest arlington yesterday afternoon. in a number of cities around north texas, the defers degree is really remarkable. what people are talking about is the number of vehicles that were lifted up and pushed across parking lots across roads, sometimes highways. big rigs lifted up and thrown on top of other cars. remarkly, though we do ha