air force as well. >> has he met any of your colleagues already? >> yes, he has. he was, um, a writer for "time" magazine, also under a pseudonym for last year. of he was officer x for "time" magazine over the last year. yeah, that was definitely interesting, too, you know, coming out, essentially, together on september 20th and having, you know, being on the same base and having, you know, commanders be like, oh, here's these two people in the media doing this. but, i mean, it's all been positive. it's, you know, people that i work with want to, you know, want me to bring him and, you know, meet him. it's really, i've had no issue at all, at all. >> did you meet by being writers who were gay in the military? [laughter] writing under pen names? >> i mean, we started a club. [laughter] the club's kind of small, but -- [laughter] it's a cool club. i think my shadow looked a lot better in the media than his shadow did. [laughter] >> how did you meet himsome. >> we met randomly through friends. he just moved to the base, and a few mutual friends introduced us, and just like two weeks later after i started dating him, he started working with the sldn, and they're the