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yada and you know here's where we are. and we've been we've been we've been fools. and in this new economy that we have a jobs are returning what can what can we look forward to. well interestingly we're seeing some improvement in the manufacturing sector and that's that's welcome it has a lot to do with the fact the dollar the u.s. dollar has been. weak in national markets and that always sounds bad when you say that how can that be good or exports it makes our exports less expensive it makes imports more expensive so that's been helping our manufacturers. actually if you if you look at the jobs of the future you know people tend to think that they're going to be like all ph d. systems analysts and computer programmers not so i mean we're going to need lots of folks in the middle in the low end of the of the employment scale we're going to need a lot of security guards we're going to be a lot of cashiers we're going to a lot of home health aides and child care workers are going to be we're going to meet teachers why not s

we've talked so much about charlie sheen, all the negatives, yada yada. on. she's got good, happy news. she's going to be -- she is a mom again. >> that's right. this time she's adopting. >> she's adopted -- adopted a baby girl. she's 40 years old, denise richards. she looks good, doesn't she? 40's not old anymore. >> absolutely. >> she's adopted a baby girl and she already has two girls already. but this new baby, her name is eloise joanie richards. you might remember whehecharlie sheen had that big, crazy thing at the plaza hotel. >> oh, right. she was there with them, right? >> she and the girls were staying in the eloise room, a really fancy room, and the girls named the new baby. so that's probably what that's all about. >> interesting. >>> let's move on now to chris hansen. you might know him from "to catch a predator." they set up these sting operations to try to catch accused child molesters or guys trying to get together with teenage girls or boys. in any case, he apparently has been caught in a different kind of sting operation himself. >> oh, d

they think we are obsessed with india because yada, yada. they think we're stupid about this.t was very well-organized. it was spot on. they do have a spokesperson for the foreign media who is extremely capable. he sometimes comes over here is speaks to people. .hey're pretty sophisticated >> could i just add one thing that congress mentioned? 2005 was a watershed year. at the end of 2005, military intelligence did an analysis looking historically u.s.- pakistan engagement in cambridge to the conclusion -- came to the conclusion that the u.s. is prepared to leave. >> there is a question in the front. i will introduce them here. here is with us. we have one from every year who teaches. next year we plan to have a much more robust program on pakistan. >> have a question from the budget from something you raised. two questions. the first is a generic question relating to any intelligence agency whether pakistani, indian, anything. if some leader who is now retired engaged in support of terrorists and the agency is not supporting them, should they be held responsible? the second q

yada, but science the people who were there and really letting science lead the way are saying this. i think we will rebuild trust and then you can start. people will allow the positive message to come through. now we're so conditioned to go -- i don't really know, you know, if that's true. so anyway, i'm so grateful for what you do. and how you are restoring faith in science again. thank you. [applause] [applause] >> we have time for one more short question. short question. and then i promise to get you out of here on time. the hour is nearing. warm up your wine glass fingers. last question. >> hi, my name is lily donahue. i went to school down north. all of my friends from new orleans said it was bad and they were affected by it. knew people including their dads shrimp catcherman and fisherman. they said it was really affected. i'm sitting up here and slightly confused as to if it was that bad why you sitting up there saying it's okay. i mean a million here and a million there from bp -- i don't understand how that's going to help as much as people say it is. i mean, you know, i th