the author of the book, "cold sweat," yama brown grows up recalling watching her father get physicalown is at the cnn center in atlanta. and yanna, you saw your mom dealing with it for a long time. what would you say to janae rice, ray rice's wife, right now if you were talking to her? >> right now, if i was talking to her, i would let her know that she has support. i'm sure she has the support of her family, but she definitely has the support of the community. i don't know specifically what's going on in their household, but i would say that when she is ready, because i know that sometimes, it takes a while for people to get to that point, that she knows that she can just -- she has the wherewithal, she has the fortitude to come forward, to get out of any abusive situation, and she needs to be in a healthy relationship. >> you know, you look at ray rice. he worked so hard to get where he is. you know, janae rice was benefiting from that. she said, she tweeted, this is our life. what don't you all get, if your intentions were to hurt us, embarrass us, make us feel alone, take all our