. >> when did yo annapolis. >> when you did you first hear about race. >> i was 16 years old.emember her telling me when she met this guy, i was like okay i didn't think much of it because my sister didn't date much. >> as alga got to know him better she thought he was the guy she needed. >> she was all very like stuck to the rules. he took her to the adventurous part of her life. >> kind of got her out of her shell. >> oh, definitely got her out of her shell. i saw a different side of her when she was with him. >> race made it to the naval academy like he wanted but suffered a hernia that never healed properly and eventually he had to with draw without graduating. he did join the navy though. then in 2014 brigita and race married and soon she was pregnant with their son. everyone was thrilled when the baby came. >> we were all excited really. we'd sit there like when we were little and had a little doll and would hold my nephew and take turns. i'd take care of him when she was sleeping or trying to rest. watching her learn and experience being a mom for the first time is how