convicted and served eight yoars in prison. -- years in prison. >> i went down on my knees and raised my hands to beg her for forgiveness. >> forgiving him kept me sane. >> people here still have weekly community work sessions and group therapist. 45,000 died in this district. in this day they're clearing land to build houses for five homeless families. projects like this one have been set up across the country. hutus and tutsis work together. for some here question whether 20 years is enough to say that people are really reconciled. >> people have a clear understanding of the fant that they have to live together. i think that's been achieved. you might like me, not like me but you understand that me and you are going to live under this sun together. >> more than a million people were tried by traditional courts called c achaca during the genocide. >> what is important is to say the truth. what you do what you did. many don't want to confess. >> no one has apologized to you claudine yet. her sister's remains are in this coffin. she was gang raped and murdered. she can't forgive but wi

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