yulia yulia how are you say, it was very hard to get to know each other, first of all morally, of course, hard, but also financially, when my husband went to the front. i was on maternity leave. yura was 2 years 10 months old. i received child allowance, but after 2 months they didn’t even pay it, because i turned 3 years old. well, a little bit, i was left without any means of subsistence. uh, because the status of a missing person does not provide for any pension for the loss of food , because everything has not yet been determined, i turned to the administration with a request to provide help me that it was hard for me to go to work and still there is no way to work fully, because they leave the child to whom gennadievna responded, we met her. she said grocery kits household chemicals personal care products were given a lot. well, the most important thing, well, we talked sincerely. she hugged me. i remember because i cried. she also offered. what do you want? well, let's give some more bedding, let's give some more. what else can you just say, how can i help you. it was awkward there. we are always with i worked as a husband, earned money, mmm , i never asked for help from anyone, i didn’t live on the allowance, and then i found myself in such a situation, so it was uncomfortable. well, the most important thing is that in what way she helped me. at that moment i just listened to it, and that is, i realized that hmm well, she liked it all the same and ekaterina gennadievna helped. i knew not only me, by that time there were still many girls who had also lost their husbands, when we were looking for my igor, we met, and i asked to help them and my friends and others women and, to my surprise, did not need to collect any certificates, as usual. it happens to be a bureaucratic procedure to go through. she just says yes girls come over. more girls of my friends arrived, who also lost their husbands, but there were still no bodies and there was no official status, she also gave them everything herself, everything that was everything that was necessary, i open it, i say the warehouse, choose whatever you want. they were also taken home. not just that they gave us in the warehouse and take it yourself. yes yes they took me home and call. write when you need to eat it please contact. i realized that the world is not without good people, probably, this is the main thing i can say, there are people who sincerely experience kat remember the moment of meeting with yulia. now julia is already well in any condition. she was already in a state of decision-making at that time , of course, she had a state of despondency. and we talked for a very long time, and then she decided that she wanted to help people like her, when i started studying, now i sighing to talk to other women. and we and we understand each other, because they believe me and because i went through it myself. yes, i'm not a psychologist. i may not find the right words. but, well, i feel her, she feels me, and so there is some kind of trusting relationship right away. and when i started dating such women, i realized that firstly, i was not the only one who realized that if i give up, it will not get easier, so we must unite and act together. uh, in order not to devalue, or something, hmm death my husband, after all, he went for some ideas for some ideals, if i give up, i will abandon my children, i will be released. well, what was it for then? i'm crying right now because the feelings are